BYKidO Experts Series: Must-have Toys To Build Pretend Play

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BYKidO Experts Series: Must-have Toys To Build Pretend Play

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As therapists, we work with toys on a daily basis to develop a range of skills in young children. Pretend play skills is one of the skills we often work on. The ability to pretend play is crucial in a child’s development and is linked to language, higher-thinking, social and emotional skills. Studies have shown that kids with better pretend play skills when they are 3-4 are more likely to have better language and advanced thinking skills at ages 8-9. The more complex a child’s pretend play, the better!

We have our favourite set of go-to toys when working with our little ones to develop their pretend play skills. These toys often have a few things in common. They are open-ended, spark imagination and encourage collaboration and conversations. Accompanied with the right strategies, these seemingly ordinary toys can be a powerful tool to develop key developmental skills.


When engaging in play with your little ones, you can try the following:

  • Observe what your child is doing and how they are playing.

  • Join in and play with your little ones. You can either use what they are using or grab your own toys and imitate what they are doing. This will garner their attention and pave the way for you to show and expand on their play.

  • Show them how to pretend play. For example, if your little one moves a car from side to side on the table, take a pen and pretend that it is a closed gantry which they have to pay the toll for before it can be opened for them to pass through.

  • If your little one can already engage in simple one-step pretend play like stirring pretend liquid in a cup, expand on this by showing them that they can also drink from the cup and then pour more liquid in from a make believe jug before washing the cup and spoon.

  • Create obstacles to give your child the opportunity to problem solve. For example, if you are playing with animals tell them “Mr elephant is hungry, what should we do?”. Guide them if they are unable to solve this problem and see if they can do it themselves the next time!

  • Encourage your child to express emotions during play. You can help them by getting them to identify feelings and personalities of their dolls. Use clear facial expressions to develop their understanding of the different emotions.

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Here are some of our go-to toys to build pretend play. The rule of thumb when choosing toys for your child is to ALWAYS follow their interest.

1. Construction Toys: You don’t have to use the block sets to build what they are designed for. You can create anything you can think up with blocks. When children are new to pretending, they often build things that are familiar to them such as houses or buildings. As their pretend play skills develop, you will find them retelling creative stories with their blocks and creation.


2. Food Toys: Children are exposed to food daily. Food is something very familiar to them, making it an easier theme for early pretenders. At the start, your child might be more focused on feeding others with their food toys. With experience, they could even start throwing a pretend birthday party or picnic.

    3. Vehicle Toys: Just like food, children are often exposed to vehicles. Before your child learns to pretend, he/ she might move the toy car up and down. When they learn to pretend, your child might take their favourite animal/ doll for a ride.

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      This article is prepared by

      Malini Pannirselvam
      Dedicated writer by day, avid reader by night, language fanatic all the time, and aunt to nieces and nephews every day

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